Is using adult toys beneficial? Debunking male myths to enhance your intimate satisfaction!

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Mentioning “adult toys” often leads us men into certain stereotypes, prompting self-doubt like: “Why use adult toys? Am I not performing well enough in bed that I need props?” “Am I not firm enough?” “Am I not lasting long enough?” These doubts are often just us overthinking.

Ryan used to feel this way too, lacking confidence in himself. There was even a period when he was hesitant to be intimate with his partner. However, after discussing it openly with his partner, he realized that things were not as he had imagined!

So, to prevent other men from being influenced by misconceptions, Ryan will explain adult toys from a more neutral perspective, letting everyone know that these items are simply small tools that can enrich and add fun to intimate experiences.

Misconceptions Men Have About Using Adult Toys

1. MakeUsing toys doesn’t mean you’re lacking in bed performance.

Many men think using adult toys means they’re not performing well in bed, or they suspect their partner might seek satisfaction elsewhere, feeling that using such items undermines their masculinity.

This is actually an unnecessary insecurity. Satisfaction in intimacy is a mutual creation, so whether or not toys are used doesn’t really matter, as long as both parties are enjoying themselves.

That’s why they’re called “adult toys”; in the end, they’re just “toys.”

2. Does using a toy replace the real thing?

Some men believe adult toys are a replacement for their own abilities, thinking they’re sufficient without additional tools. In reality, these toys are not replacements but tools to enhance the experience.

3. Does using adult toys mean a lack of skills?

Some men might worry that using adult toys could be seen as a sign of lacking skills in intimacy. In reality, these toys can enhance the experience between partners, rather than replace skill.

4. Does using adult toys make intimacy feel routine?

Some might mistakenly think that using adult toys overly materializes intimacy, neglecting emotional connection. In fact, these toys can be a bridge for communication and enhance interaction between partners.

5. Does letting others know I use adult toys affect social perception?

Some men worry about social perception, thinking that using adult toys might be seen as abnormal or improper. In reality, views on intimacy are becoming more open, with more people accepting diverse perspectives.

Ryan tells everyone that in the realm of intimacy, prowess isn’t just about physicality. Skillful use of adult toys can offer couples a more diverse experience.

Before using the ‘ace up your sleeve,’ try incorporating some novelty items to offer a different kind of thrill, potentially deepening the connection.

These misconceptions are based on stereotypes and fixed ideas about intimacy. In reality, if we approach novelty items with an open mind, we’ll discover a vast world out there!!!

If you’re eager to try novelty items but lack a ‘partner,’ feel free to chat with Ryan. We might have someone suitable to ‘explore’ with you!

Not sure where to start? Don’t worry, just follow Ryan’s lead!

Step One: Discuss with your partner before purchasing

Before starting, let’s ensure everyone shares Ryan’s understanding of intimacy: both parties should enjoy it!

So, Ryan suggests discussing with your partner:

Rational version:“Babe, I want to try using toys during intimacy, it seems fun. What do you think?” Then discuss which type, size, and features to buy, and purchase once both agree.
Emotional version:You can also invite your partner playfully, like “Babe, want to try something more exciting?” or “Babe~ I want to add toys during intimacy, will you try it with me?”

If you confirm your partner is okay with it“Surprise”, then you might want to try the following method:

During foreplay, naturally introduce toys, slow down the pace, and once your partner is fully relaxed, you can “activate” them. Initially, there’s no need to go directly for sensitive areas. Use the toys to gently graze the skin, creating a teasing sensation and building anticipation. Finally, with high-speed vibrations, start exploring areas like the nipples, side waist, and back of the neck. Then, you know the rest, gradually proceed as you would with a real experience.

Step Two: Buying Adult Toys, Beginner Options to Consider

Start with vibrating eggs, massagers, suction devices, and breast vibrators! These are well-known to most people and are quite familiar. Paired with lubricant, they can more smoothly stimulate sensitive areas. The best part is that some vibrating eggs come with an app for remote control. If you’re looking for more excitement, take your partner to a public place, appearing completely normal on the outside, but with a little mischief happening privately. Then, unexpectedly adjust the vibration intensity…

Hmm, feeling curious and want to try it out?

If you want to learn more about beginner-friendly items, check out Ryan’s guide:Guide to Intimate Products | Types, Users, Tips, Everything You Need to Know!

Stage Three: Understanding the Benefits and Functions of Intimate Products

Here, Ryan wants to share that using these products can save a lot of energy. Basically, only your hand needs to do the work, and it can make her feel incredibly ready. By the time you’re ready to step in, she’s already captivated, like a ripe apple ready to be picked and enjoyed.

And also,intimate products aren’t just toys; lubricants are fantastic too「Assistance tools!

If a girl feels nervous and experiences dryness, using some lubricant can help toys or a partner enter more smoothly, making the whole process more seamless.

When a girl is helping a guy manually, applying lubricant on the hands can make the motion smoother and easier. Lubricants now come in flavors like strawberry, apple, and chocolate, and are safe to ingest, so accidental tasting during play is perfectly fine!

Stage four: Gradually try and adjust carefully

Regardless of the pairing, it’s important to observe the partner’s reactions to decide the extent and choice of toys used.

Be aware that frequent use of toys might reduce sensitivity, so it’s crucial to time their use well. Stop using toys just before climax and switch to physical touch to provide warmth, alternating speeds and sensations for indescribable pleasure and excitement!

Stage Five: SM Accessories

If your partner is open to new experiences, you might want to try some simple SM accessories.

Take “handcuffs” as an example. With movement restricted, it can lead to more alluring poses and a sense of vulnerability, enhancing the feeling of conquest and achievement.

Remember to choose suitable handcuffs, preferably lined with soft fabric, to ensure both allure and safety, preventing wrist discomfort.

Stage Six: Role Play, Fully Equipped

Role play is a common fantasy, with many men dreaming of intimate moments with someone in a specific uniform. Whether it’s a maid, nurse, police officer, or flight attendant, adopting different roles can spice things up, making it feel like a scene from a film.

Want a more direct approach? No need to buy your own role-play outfits; Ryan has you covered with experienced staff. Isn’t that convenient? Contact viaLINE!

Ryan’s conclusion on adult products

Intimacy isn’t just about the act itself; it’s not over with just a single moment. Adding a bit of variety to the routine can enhance the experience for both partners. Using adult products can boost confidence and control in the bedroom, making the experience more fulfilling for everyone involved!

So, why not set aside any preconceived notions about adult products, explore the field more deeply, and discover their intriguing aspects?

If you really can’t find someone to join you, contact Ryan. Our girls might have plenty of experience in this area and can help you explore these ‘toys’!

Want to experience the thrill of adult toys and beautiful girls? Get in touch with Ryan!